Showing posts with label at-risk children in Northern Thailand. Show all posts
Showing posts with label at-risk children in Northern Thailand. Show all posts

Thursday, June 13, 2024

The Sponsorship Experience

Wara

It's not the same for everyone, this sponsorship thing.
But I'll get to that in a minute.

There are twenty-five right now.
Twenty-five at risk and orphan children who are no longer either of those things, and who no longer need be defined in such a way...
Thim
because of Sponsors.

From the beginning of our connection with Pastors Suradet and Yupa and the then eleven children they so courageously welcomed into their home in and about 2007, the Sponsors have been "our part" of what makes it happen.  

Suradet and Yupa and the staff at New Family Foundation carry the weight and joy of the every day.  They are caring for the needs of eighteen on-site kids, plus six older students studying at university or specialized prep schools.  That's feeding, clothing, nurturing, parent-teachering, and loving, all with the logistics of twenty-five sets of needs.  Yes, that's the much bigger thing.

And the Sponsors come alongside, love and befriend, and support financially and relationally, their one child.  It's a very personalized deal.  All Sponsors send over packets filled with tangible evidence of their care.  Some Sponsors actually are able to go and visit and meet their child in person.  All the children know their Sponsors by name, and pray for us every single day.  

And we get to see them grow and graduate and launch into their adult lives, just like we hoped would happen when they first came to us.

Entorn is working of a Masters of Theology.
Miki has her engineering degree and is now married with a baby girl.
Somechai has his own small engine repair business and is now married with a son.
Two is now a mahoot (elephant trainer) at a rescue camp, married with a baby girl.
Wara is just graduating from Bible school and will be looking for a church to pastor.
Eak is pressing into his last years at a prep school that will bridge him into a university degree in architecture.
Thim is now a teacher in a remote mountain village school, providing the kind of education that was not available to her when she was growing up.
Eak then

None of these children would have had these opportunities without their Sponsors.  And we are so proud of all of them.
That's what we live for!

Sometimes it hurts though.
Love like you won't get hurt, but you do.

Because we are not legal guardians of these children, but rather custodians whose living relatives have entrusted their children into our care.  Rightly so, Thai law gives final say to the legal guardians and parents of all children.  This is especially necessary in a country where many organizations such as ours undertake the mission to help break the cycle of life crushing poverty.  

So parents sometimes call their children back.
Lots of reasons.
Sometimes, and this is great, a parent's life situation changes and they are now able to provide for their own child's well-being and education.  We rejoice, even if we're sad when we say good-bye.

Eak now
One time, during COVID, a grandmother who was the legal guardian, firmly believed the the virus would not reach them up in the mountain, and was terrified to allow her grandson to return to begin the new school year, living so close to Chiang Mai.  

Sometimes, often enough to make it so hard on all of us, parents or family members of girls do not feel it is necessary for them to continue their education past grade 8 or even grade 6.  We don't agree.  But we have no legal recourse.  

In every case, especially when the Sponsor has done the investment emotionally, we grieve.
But it's still worth it.

And I describe this as honestly as I can because right now we have had no less than eight new children join our family.

Four of them have Sponsors already.  Thank you!
Four do not.

And I resist here the temptation to post their pictures and names, even though I'm pretty sure I think I may have done so in the past.  But by now the last thing I want to do is to randomize a Sponsor-Child pairing process that has become so much more prayerful and spiritual as we have grown as an organization over the years.

I let you know here so you can know, and respond if that's where this is leading you.
And if you're interested please contact me at rabreithaupt@hcckw.ca.
I can send along all the information and expectations.
And some pictures :).

Sponsors, past and present.
We are so deeply grateful for all you have given to us from your hearts!!!!






 





Monday, February 19, 2024

Family Day Praise


May the righteous be glad
and rejoice before God;
may they be happy and joyful.

Sing to God, sing in praise of his name,
extol him who rides on the clouds;
rejoice before him -- his name is the LORD.

A father to the fatherless, 
a defender of widows,
is God in his holy dwelling.

God sets the lonely in families,
he leads out the imprisoned with singing.
Psalm 68:3-6

Not for one minute do we take for granted
 what an incredible gift it is to be belong to a family.

On this Family Day, 
we are so grateful to all our Sponsors and Supporters.  
Not only do you help us provide the basic needs of life, 
and the opportunity to further our education,
you also have given us the place of healing, safety and stability 
we so desperately need in order to grow up strong.

We join with the psalmist is offering praise to God
Who, by His good grace, placed us together 
to be a family for each other.


The mission of the New Family Foundation 
is to provide a loving home 
for at-risk and orphaned children
in Northern Thailand
to help them achieve their best potential in
education, vocation and service to society.

 

Tuesday, October 10, 2023

When You Have to Move But You Don't Really Want To

 


Morning breaks or sun is setting, either way the sky over Hot Springs covers a place of healing and peace.  We are out a little ways from the big city, down a road that has built up over the years, but would still be considered "out of the way."



A long driveway sets us back from the road.  Behind all the buildings is a steep hill covered in trees.  A decent path off to the right of the kitchen takes us past a well cultivated garden to the goat pen beyond.

We're talking about 10 acres of space for kids to run and learn and live and love.

This is the property on Hot Springs Korean Methodist Church is situated, and where Pastors Suradet and Yupa have, for the past 15 years, welcomed at risk and orphaned children into a now rather larger, and always loving family.  They were at-risk themselves as children.  When they realized what God had given them in the property assigned to their new church plant, opening their arms to the children just seemed like the right thing to do.

Fast forward to today and...we're moving.

Why would we ever want to leave this place?  

We don't.  

But we have to.

Here's why.

With the onset of military rule in 2014 new requirements for children’s welfare came into play.  Rightfully so.  Previously the loose and unregulated 'understandings' around the care of at-risk and orphan children left room for far too much that would not actually be in the best interests these small vulnerable human beings.  So it was due time to tighten up the requirements.  Among these requirements was that of having children’s homes established on ‘deeded property’.  

The property on which Hot Springs currently sits is ‘crown land’, and while it is legal to build a variety of structures on it, for example a church, it is not deeded, and therefore does not fall under compliance.  

Also, there's the fact that the Hot Springs property is owned not by Pastors Suradet and Yupa or even their local church, but by the Korean Methodist Church of Thailand, as I've already said.  

It is therefore necessary that we strive to relocate the children as soon as we can.  We do have a buffer.  Since we are in active process of becoming compliant, and also because we have a legally registered office address on deeded property, the children’s home we currently have is in no immediate danger of being shut down.  Plus the entire country, like the entire world, has had so many things put on 'pause' that it is not seen as a delay when not much has been done during the years of COVID.

But at any given time we could be served notice.  So we're moving.


That's why the development of our new property is so important.  And that's why, during this current visit to Canada, we wanted to let Suradet and Yupa speak for themselves about it all.

Saturday, October 14, 2023

7:00 to 8:30

Music, Mini-Market and Dessert

295 Highview Drive KIT ON N2N 2K7

We would love to have you join us for a mini concert upstairs, a mini market downstairs, and an opportunity to partner with us in these excited next steps for New Family Foundation.



“The mission of New Family Foundation is to provide a loving home for at-risk and orphaned children in in Northern Thailand to help them achieve their best potential in education, vocation and service to society.”