When Everything's Times Twenty!

Of all the challenges faced during the global pandemic that is Covid-19, families adjusting to 'online learning' will likely go down as one of the most remembered in normal households all around the world.

Without question, this will be a chapter in our story at Hot Springs that won't soon be forgotten.
I mean, we're talking online learning with 20 kids!!!  I guess that's hardly a 'normal' household!

Even considering everyone's in pandemic mode and it's understandably difficult for authorities to make any long range plans, all of this happened for us with very short notice.   Added to the last minute preparations, was the fact that our children had been with surviving family members and/or legal guardians for the duration of their summer break, mid-March to mid-May, with the understanding that that's where they would stay until school began July 1st.  That was the Thai government's first thought about how to keep children safe during this time of physical distancing.

For Suradet and Yupa, that meant a sudden need for bulk groceries, something a little tricky there like it would be here right now, making sure the rooms were ready after some painting and other upkeep maintenance projects that were still in progress (with a July 1 deadline in mind), AND attending the meetings provided for parents to train them on the computer programs required for the remote education experience.  Remember, Suradet and Yupa do everything times 20!

Everything started on Monday (May 19), so we're not even finished the first week yet.  I am in touch with Suradet and Yupa daily, if nothing else but to just cheer them on.  We are all committed to providing our children with everything they possibly need to achieve their best potential.  Online learning wasn't part of the original plan, nor is it expected to be a permanent situation.  But it is what is required of our on site Staff now.  And it's a big job.

We are so grateful for those who have stepped forward to provide un-budgeted-for funds to purchase the extra computers and an upgrade to our existing computer that were required to accommodate everyone.  Getting things set up in three different stations, grade-related, is the strategy we've adopted to begin.  It means Suradet and Yupa, as well as other Staff, are constantly doing the rounds, checking in on the progress, making sure everyone's connecting with the internet and with the material in ways that work for them.



Too soon to know what kinks they'll need to work out.  But the pictures show everyone hard at work, books open and work on screen.

Of course, since it's still really, really hot in Thailand right now, a trip to the swimming hole from some cooling off helps keep everyone on track too.

And it was a special gift and privilege to arrange a time when Ken and I could join in evening worship, via Facebook video chat.  We took a look at some comforting verses from Psalm 91, and sang together the song "Still" which talks about God's presence to help us 'rise above the storm'.  These are the times when I'm grateful for all the technology.  Talk about a 'distanced' visit!

We want to keep everyone informed as to all that's happening for us at New Family Foundation in light of the challenges we're all facing, and particularly as to how it is affecting our children at Hot Springs.  The good news is that God is providing, spirits are good, and the true fact is that if our kids weren't part of NFF they would not be receiving their education right now.   There are just no schools, no devices, no internet in the villages where they are from.

So, we can't say it enough.  Thank you!!  Everyone who contributes in any way at all, as Sponsors, as general supporters, as visitors who establish relationship and connection.....you are making this possible.

We will keep you posted!!!

A Covid Update for Hot Springs

They're all coming home!

Life in a Covid world is nothing if not unplannable.  That's true in Canada and true in Thailand.  Things can change quickly, so it's important for everyone to stay open for what each day brings.

When Thailand originally went into lockdown it was the beginning of a two month summer holiday.  The government plan at that time was to push back the beginning of the school year by six weeks, with the hope that the pandemic phase would be complete and it would be safe for them to call everyone back to school by July 1.

On Tuesday of this week (May 12) we received a phone call from our children's schools (elementary and high school) informing us that online learning would begin on Monday, May 18, which would be the normal first day of school.   Children are expected to be ready to 'go back to school' but just not in the building, a way of learning that our own Canadian kids have been participating in for several weeks already.

Because our Hot Springs children are registered in the local school district, and because most of them have no internet access or devices up in the mountains where they are, it's now necessary for them to come back 'on time'.

What this means for us at Hot Springs.

One, we have to get the children back from their living relatives sooner than expected.  Most of them are being fetched (as we speak) back from the mountain villages.  This is usually at least a day long journey, with many stops for bathroom breaks and food along the way.  Our first prayer is for their safety, not just from the normal travel risks prevalent on mountain roads, but also from increased exposure to the virus as they make their way back.

Two, we have been forced to purchase at least two more computers in order to facilitate the online learning required.  Currently there are seventeen sponsored children, plus two staff children, plus two Bible school students all vying for one computer, which is sufficient when it's just shared for homework purposes, but won't be enough for online learning.  Our prayer here is for good prices and availability, both of which can be affected due to increased demand.

Three, Suradet and Yupa will add this schooling component to their already abundant responsibilities in overseeing New Family Foundation overall and the care of the children in particular.  Our prayer here is for consistent internet connection (not always the case at Hot Springs), loving cooperation (older students already help younger students with homework), wisdom and stamina for all Staff, and of course protection for the health of all as everyone comes back from variously exposed environments.

For a general idea of the overall Covid situation in Thailand I would direct you to the WHO report at this link.  I am currently researching other articles and in conversation with Suradet and Yupa for a more fleshed out understanding of the economic and social impacts of the months of lockdown.  I am uncertain what, if any, government emergency funds have been made available to folks struggling.

Meanwhile, for the valiant Team at Hot Springs right now, there is a sense of urgency for sure, and a wondering at how all of this will translate into a new way of being a family.   But with typical resilience and deep faith, Suradet and Yupa just keep on doing what God's called them to do with grace and humility....and a deep appreciation for all the care and encouragement of all our Sponsors and Supporters.

Anyone interested in helping out with some of the extra costs for computers or any other ongoing educational needs during this unusual time, please feel free to email me at rabreithaupt@hcc.kw and I will be happy to direct your inquiries.

And while I've been careful to keep saying that this whole online learning thing is "NOT HOMESCHOOLING" because it isn't, the homeschooling Mom in me would so love to be there with them right now!!!

I'm sure I could find another reason to use a live goat as a lesson illustration!!!

Finding Love In All the Right Places: Becca's Story

Part of an ongoing series highlighting the experiences of folks who have visited our family in Thailand.  Here's Becca's story.

I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to experience the strong and loving community at Hot Springs.  

I will always remember the first day we arrived at the airport and how Ahajan Suradet and Yupa welcomed us with big hugs, smiles and beautiful flower necklaces.  When arriving at Hot Springs later that day, we were welcomed again, with the warm and exciting smiles from all of the children. 

Ahajan Suradet and Yupa not only raised their own children, but also generously opened their arms and home to many others.  I could see how much they have loved and cared for these children.  Their kindness and compassion has built a large, extended family. 

Before leaving to Thailand, my friends were joking with me telling me that I was going to find love in Thailand.  I thought, “haha, no, probably not”.  What I didn’t know, was that I actually was going to find love, but a completely different, unexpected kind.  This was shown in everyone’s actions and care for one another.  

While we were there, Ruth Anne explained the five love languages: words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, quality time and gifts.  She also explained that most people will only demonstrate 2 or 3 of these actions to their loved ones, but that the community at Hot Springs demonstrates all of them and I was able to witness that.  

This was something that has touched me so deeply, and that I will never forget.

Becca Shirer

Sheldon's View and a Mother's Heart

The next installment in a series highlighting folks who have visited our Thai family at Hot Springs.  Here Sheldon Connor reflects on his time there in the summer of 2019.  

Photo by Sheldon:  Saiy helps prepare a meal.

Labouring not for glory or honour to be bestowed on oneself, but purely for the cultivation and fulfilment of others' souls.

Photo by Sheldon: Saiy's baby girl Ong Ooey.

Building another up for the mission and for daily life without the promise of recognition. 
"For He has come not to be served but to serve." Matthew 20:28 

Sheldon goofing off with the kids during homework time.

The fruit of another's labour and outpouring of love feeds the next generation to do the same.  Absolute humility. I love New Family Foundation, Suradet and Yupa, the kids. They are so in tune with the things of the Spirit and they reflect Jesus so well. 

Sheldon and Min.  English reading time!

My time there was enlightening and convicting for both learning about God's character but also in areas in my soul that He is exposing to change for the betterment for His kingdom.

Sheldon


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An added element to Sheldon's visit last summer was helping to fulfill his Mother's wishes that some of her remains be brought to Thailand.

Jen Connor was part of the original team that took that first trip to Southeast Asia, where our adventure began in the winter of 2008.  Her subsequent visit about 18 months later, and her tireless work as our Sponsors' Liaison, bonded her heart to our family at Hot Springs in ways she found hard to describe.

Having Sheldon come to visit meant the world to Suradet and Yupa and the children there who remembered our beloved "Miss Jen."  Our time at the top of the hill, to celebrate her life and respectfully distribute her ashes at the foot of that simple corss, was deeply moving for all of us.  I had the humble honour of holding the container while each child came to scoop a little out with their hands and spread Jen's love over the rocks.  So gentle.  So respectful.

Jen you are deeply missed, but your love and legacy lives on.

A Family Adventure: The Gabber's Story

The next installment in a series highlighting folks who have visited our Thai family at Hot Springs (New Family Foundation). Here, Linda recounts her family's adventure with husband George and three children Johnny, Elaine and Emerson.

Georg and Johnna (back) Linda and Elaine (front) missing Emerson.

Well, we’re all living in a place we haven’t been before. I mean , this pandemic stuff.The rules are all different and I can’t make sense of what’s going on. There’s fear and there’s going to be sadness. And yet, we’ll also declare God’s goodness and listen and walk in His ways.  

When I reflect back on my family’s choice to go to Hot Springs in 2012, 13 and 15 I see some similarities. I wanted my family to experience a different part of the world, to catch a glimpse of how big it is and to see that God is bigger. I hoped by participating in our church’s involvement with "Regions Beyond" it would set us on a path of looking beyond ourselves. 

Ed:  Emerson celebrated his 11th birthday in Thailand.

We were immersed in another language and culture. We saw God’s kingdom of love in action. We were caught up in the care and teaching that resulted in devoted worship and prayer.  Seeing the opportunities that education brings means there’s hope amidst the hard work.  

My kids mixed right in with the Hot Springs kids.We worked hard on our assigned roles and tasks even if it didn’t seem natural. Playful, joyful and mischievous fun was had. We made friends.

Ed:  Classic Johnny (hope he'll forgive me)

For families who are feeling the nudge to go, I’d recommend training here. Have adventures at home, spend time exploring, read books, go to a Thai restaurant or an Asian grocery store, walk in the woods, build something, sing songs, play sports, whatever your family likes to do.

God will use your gifts and develop ones you didn’t know you had. Listen, and listen some more. In our story we readied our finances and were blessed in unexpected ways long after the trip.

Of course, my other piece of advice would be to think about and try out health and hygiene practices in a tropical setting.

With gratitude to Ruth Anne, Yupa and Suradet for making it all possible.

Blessings to all, Linda

A Slower Pace of Life: Dave's Story

The second in a short series highlighting various individuals who have spent time at Hot Springs; both those from Highview and elsewhere.  

A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away....

World events are taking centre stage in my mind, and to stop and put that aside to
think about past trips to Hot Springs seems like the opener of Star Wars... but
then maybe not.

Covid 19 has most of us self isolating/working from home. Our fast-paced lives have slowed down which would be one of the first things you would notice about Hot Springs once the jet lag has left you. You would also see the sense of community as you awaken in the dark and hear the older children helping the younger ones get ready for morning Worship.

To the sound of a single guitar we gather, half-opened eyes from the boys facing
the yawning girls across the room, and our day begins at Hot Springs. It did not take
me long to feel I was experiencing life in the village of our LARGE family, 24/7.

I seem to be turning this into a narrative so I will get to the point.

Make the 14,019 km journey away from our distracting life. Your eyes may be opened by the
different culture, but your heart will see the similarities because of Jesus. You may
come away seeing how God is in control here, there and everywhere.

God Bless and please be praying for each other always. And if you decide to go I have a signed "excused from one morning worship coupon" (1) that you may want to use or, like me, hold on to as a keep sake to remind you of all the "God Moments" in Thailand.

Dave Driver.

(1)  Ruth Anne's Note:  Morning Worship happens at 5:30 a.m.  When we go, we want to participate fully in the life of our Thai family, but it's also good to listen to our bodies when adapting to the time change and climate.  On the last trip Dave was on, we found it helpful for good team dynamics and our overall well being to be able to cash in one of these coupons when needed.  Available on request :).  

The Long View: Megan's Story

The first in what I hope to be a short series highlighting various individuals who have spent time at Hot Springs; both those from Highview and elsewhere.  

"I long to see you so that I may impart to you 

some spiritual gift to make you strong 

--that is, that we might be encouraged by each other's faith."  

The Apostle Paul - Romans 1:11-12

2010 with Somchai, Beeyung, Boy and Bell

"If you just want to support a project, then, fine.  Send money. 

But if you want to build a relationship, you just need to be there."  

Megan Ogilvie

2020 Reading with the kids

In January 2020 Megan marked ten years of visits (five times) to our Children's Home at New Family Foundation.  Not only has Megan been a effective minister for every trip, mostly due to her ability to easily connect with the children, but by now she also has a longer term perspective that is helpful as we continue to forge our partnership there.

When asked what she observed were the changes over ten years, she replied:

Getting to see the changes that have occurred since I first went in 2010 over this long period of time has been amazing. When I first came, I'll admit, it was a bit of an anomaly, being the hottest weather they (and I) had experienced. But it was this cute little church and building, 12 kids, plus Suradet and Yupa and their 2 children.  They were all were quieter, still very clearly trying to make sure not to offend these white visitors. It was still the very new stages of a relationship, with both sides still figuring out where it was going. 

Pretty spectacular jump shot!

Since then, over the next four trips, there was so much growth. The property got three new buildings, a goat farm, and a new dining shelter. The children have a little computer station to do their homework at. There's new instruments that they play on Sunday mornings, and wardrobes for them to keep their stuff off the ground. 

But even more important than that is the way that the relationship has changed and grown. I remember the first time we had taken the children on an outing and Suradet had a nap. He had never done that before. He'd always wanted to be awake to make sure he was tending to our every need, even though we'd assure him we were fine. But in that moment I could see the change from wary friendship to a sense of family beginning. Now we're at the point where, this past trip, Yupa let Esther and I do the dishes after meals. That, people, is progress!  We still haven't managed to be sneaky enough to jump in on laundry, but I feel like that's just around the corner. 

There's an air of comfortable familiarity now. Both sides know the other side isn't going anywhere. 

2020 with Esther, Im, Atom, Gam and Norma (making faces)

On top of that, to see the independence that Suradet and Yupa have gained has been amazing.  In establishing New Family Foundation, they have been able to actualize a vision; something they tentatively shared with us at the beginning, but which has now come into it's owns full blown thing.  There's even a new property in the works - it's just amazing!  Hot Springs has flourished under their love and leadership, even in the midst of several very hard things for them. I can't wait to see what the next ten years brings.

The mission of New Family Foundation is to provide a loving home for at-risk and orphaned children in Northern Thailand to help then achieve their best potential in education, vocation and service to society.